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Dating and Relationship Tips
Is Your Inner Child Running Your Business?
Do you feel like you’re overworking without feeling satisfied? Do you have difficulty accepting praise or compliments? Do you suffer…
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What Crap Are You Leaving in 2025
Before you write a single resolution this year, I want you to try something different. It’s a ritual I’ve been…
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The Real Secret to Health and Happiness (According to 80 Years of Research)
Have you ever looked at people who seem to have figured it out? They’re in their sixties, seventies, or eighties,…
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Why Passive Aggressive Anger Destroys Relationships
In my almost three decades as a psychotherapist, I’ve seen passive-aggressive anger quietly destroy more relationships than infidelity. It’s a…
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How to Let Yourself Want What You Want (With All Your Heart)
I want to start with a question. When you want something, do you have a way of talking yourself out…
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The HFC Recovery Code: 11 Truths for Healing from High-Functioning Codependency
When you’re a high-functioning codependent, you don’t look stuck. You look capable. You’re the one who pulls everything together, gets…
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Are You a High-Functioning Codependent? 9 Questions to Find Out
Do you think you’re codependent? Or are you unsure? In this post, I’m going to walk you through nine questions…
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When Family Obligation Becomes Too Much: A Guide to Reclaiming Your Bandwidth
Does your chest ever tighten when your phone rings and you see it’s someone in your family who you know…
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Your Psychological Survival Kit for When the World Feels Like Too Much
I’ve been hearing from so many of you that you’re feeling overwhelmed by what’s happening in the world right now.…
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A Therapist’s Guide to Communicating During Conflict
Many people can communicate just fine until a conflict arises. Then the nervous system gets activated, and suddenly you’re either…
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